Desperation due to lack of diplomatic or social skills Anger, againstness, self-righteousness An inability to see things from more than one perspective Fear-based reactionism Compassionless action Bravado or immaturity Your own inner conflict, or an effort to understand two opposing arguments points of view Look for parallels in your life (including media you’ve seen), such as a disagreement, battle of opinions or wills, aggression, or attack.