Dreaming that you are having “male problems,” erectile dysfunction, or the inability to ejaculate could indicate anxieties regarding your sexuality. You may be feeling insecure about your performance and thus are dreaming that you are unable to perform. If you are female and dream that your partner is having “male problems,” it could also indicate insecurities around your own sexuality. You may be feeling that you aren’t attractive enough, not thin enough, too old, etc… to arouse desire in your partner.