Lap Dance – The lap dance is a symbol of heightened sexual tension and social fun, which is out of reach. Dreaming about this particular symbol is an indicator that someone who is very close to you is also very attractive to you. Perhaps a coworker or a friend is extremely attractive to you but they are impossible to get together with because one of you is married or there is too large of a social wall between you. Dreaming about the lap dance is a way for you to release the sexual tension between you before it becomes too awkward.